Life with a new baby is all the wonderful and difficult things your family and friends told you it would be. In Chinese culture, the time after birth is called Zuo Yue Zi, or “sitting the month”. Many cultures have variations of this tradition where the parent rests after birth for a period of time. This is viewed as the most critical time in the health of the new parent. These 30-100 days are filled with lots of rest, nourishing food, and help from family, friends, or the community.
Too often in Western culture, we feel like we need to “bounce back” after birthing a baby. We feel pulled to be out in the world, our newborn strapped to our chest, introducing our newest love to the outside world. Or maybe we do not have the privilege of taking time off at all and are forced back to work out of necessity. The truth is, you need to rest, eat, cuddle baby, feed baby, drink water, and be still. We typically recommend that folks focus on healing and resting those first months, but if you find yourself in need of care please consider adding us to your care team.
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